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Tornado in Delhi, waiters in DU college, and more: How Miranda House Archiving Project unearthed the city’s history

January 26, 2023 by indianexpress.com Leave a Comment

The Miranda House Archiving Project , which aims to trace the college’s history and that of its students, inaugurated its first physical centre on Wednesday— with a twist.

The Project has utilised an unused space in a corner of its library building, with a permanent exhibit showcasing a timeline of the college’s history as well as rare photographs chronicling the lives of students and staff members.

Speaking to The Indian Express , Prof Bijayalaxmi Nanda, Principal, Miranda House, says the newly-inaugurated exhibit is an essence of the 75 years of the college’s history and reflective of “how women make spaces enabling”. The college was founded on March 7, 1948.

“Over the last few years, the archive has been digital, and now it’s in a physical form. It is a celebration of not just the college completing 75 years, but also of the act of retrieving women’s histories and making them more accessible,” Nanda says.

Dr Shweta Sachdeva Jha, Associate Professor, Department of English, said space is a huge issue in college, which led her team to consider converting unoccupied spaces into exhibits and storage areas. She says it has made history more a part of everyday experience at the college.

The project started in 2020 after Jha received a grant from the Women’s Studies Centre at Mumbai ’s SNDT Women’s University. Jha says the initial plan was to interview old alumni and former staff, with a focus on building a repository of oral history.

Members of the Miranda House Archiving Project(Image credits: Annika)

Along with this, there were several trunks full of old photos, with some being stuck on chart paper as decorations for an earlier event. There were also old college magazines, which Jha describes as “full of information, especially the pieces by students. “There were many about how you had to be good at English otherwise the waiters wouldn’t serve you, and that’s how we discovered that the college once had liveried waiters! We saw them in old photographs too, and that’s how a lot of the history was traced, a lot of dots connected.”

What excites Jha most about the project is the ability to trace different kinds of histories by creating an archive. She cites several examples of stumbling upon stories that would have otherwise remained hidden from the public eye. “In a college magazine from 1978, we came across a girl talking about a tornado hitting the city! I think Amitav Ghosh also talks about it in one of his novels. It was of course covered by all newspapers back in the day, but it’s something we hardly ever talk about anymore.”

“Then there is the history of sports,” she adds. “One of the first interviews I did was with a woman who won several awards in the ‘ Delhi Olympics’ in 1951— it was only after several Google searches that I realised she meant the First Asian Games, which were referred to as the ‘Delhi Olympics’.”

For the project, the act of unearthing private histories and placing them in the public domain has been the major founding stone as they collect and preserve photos, memorabilia, and voices connected to the college. However, it operates on a strict ethical process. No part of an interview is retained in the archive without explicit consent from the women. “There is a lot of trauma that comes out in these interviews too,” Jha says. “Through this, we can look at issues like sexual harassment in public spaces, the history of women’s transportation in the city from DTC to the Metro, what it feels like being a minority, the linguistic divide, etc.”

Gorvika Rao, Assistant Professor, Department of English, says the most difficult part of the work is actually tracing the women. “Their names change. They have their father’s or family’s name in college, and afterwards, they go by their husband’s name. It’s not something a Google search can solve, but we keep trying to track these histories through what we have with us.”

Jha says, “After Kodak and the phone camera, perspectives changed. Now, women have the freedom to employ their own gaze to understand their own bodies, and document their own experiences… earlier, all we had were studio photographs. But even then, there were women photographers. I found Brijender Sangha, and through her a whole history of travel we never knew about. She and other women photographers travelled to various places abroad, and photographed them… it’s fascinating to note the shift between the male gaze and the female, especially now.”

Devika Gupta, an alumna from the 2017 batch of English honours who has been associated with the Archive since the beginning, says the Project, which started out in the peak pandemic time of 2020, also made it easier for the students who were suddenly detached from the college or those who had never even entered it to connect with it. “It was a great way of having that solidarity and that belongingness which otherwise you only get when you are here,” she says.

So, what’s next? “The plan is to start some kind of workshop with professional archivists to possibly train students,” says Jha. “It wouldn’t just help the Project, but also expand the students’ skill sets and open up a new career option for them.”

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“We are building an archive with students,” she adds. “They tell us what they find interesting, which reminds me of why it is so important for me to save every little thing that I find. The newer generations that come in will understand themselves by looking at the past. It’s very important for people to build their own stories, that’s what’s at the heart of it all.”

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A Romantic Mexico City Dinner to Toast a Growing Fashion Brand

March 27, 2023 by www.nytimes.com Leave a Comment

In the summer of 2022, the clothing designer Olivia Villanti passed seven weeks driving through France, Switzerland, Italy, Croatia and Montenegro with her husband, Guillaume Guevara, an entrepreneur, and their young son. While on the trip, she would spend most weekends scavenging flea markets, picking out shirts with details like an elegant cutaway collar or an unusual cuff stitched to fold back without cuff links. When the couple returned home to Mexico City, where Guevara, 41, grew up and where they moved in 2020 after 16 years together in New York, Villanti, also 41, unpacked several duffels of old clothes and began designing the latest (and largest) collection for her nearly three-year-old made-to-order women’s wear line, Chava Studio .

Before leaving the United States, Villanti had worked for years in marketing departments at large international brands. “I was trying to reach these enormous sales goals,” she says, “and I was so unhappy.” In Mexico City, where Guevara’s uncle Bruno Gilly Armand had for years supplied boutique men’s tailors with imported cottons and wools, Villanti started envisioning garments of her own using deadstock fabrics. She hoped to incorporate into women’s clothing “these elements that belonged, traditionally, to the world of men’s tailoring,” she says, “these small details” — like double vents on jackets, or functional cuffs — “that women just don’t get.” Since that first collection, Villanti, who handles the brand’s design, sourcing and customer service and works closely with a team of seamstresses out of Gilly’s studio , has been constantly immersed in production. By last summer, the business was established enough that she could consider not just her company’s future — “Chava will always be small,” she says, and always in partnership with local workshops — but also its past. To celebrate both, she decided to plan a dinner.

Held on a brisk March night, the event would serve as an informal launch for the new collection — with its slick, nip-waist tuxedo coat and shawl-collared vest in eggshell linen — as well as a tribute to the friends, family members and colleagues who have made the business a success. As the sun set around 6:30, Villanti and Guevara opened the doors at Proyecto Público Prim, an early 20th-century mansion in the central neighborhood of Colonia Juarez. Built in 1906 and occupied by a long line of owners before being abandoned for some twenty years late last century, the house has undergone a series of sensitive restorations over the past decade. With its gracious central courtyard and labyrinth of secondary rooms, its grand split staircase, cracked plaster walls and profusion of plants, the structure today exudes the old-world sprezzatura that has always animated Villanti’s line. “It’s just romantic,” she says, “and I think Chava is romantic — tailoring is romantic.”

By nightfall, guests from New York, Los Angeles, Guadalajara and Mexico City — including the designer Mariana Villeda, who has collaborated with Villanti through her embroidery collective, Jauja, based in the rural community of Temoaya, and the writer and curator Su Wu, who opened her home in the Roma neighborhood for the brand’s first trunk show — had found their seats at a long rectangular table set for 34 attendees with scallop-edged dishware by the Mexico City-based ceramist Perla Valtierra. In lieu of place cards, there were napkins made from leftover scraps of linen from Chava’s studio monogrammed with each guest’s initials.

Soon after, marbled wheat-and-corn bread arrived with rochers of butter tinted the color of chestnuts by ground chicatanas , or flying ants. Next came several salads served on raw earthenware: Apples, cranberries and grapefruit filled tangled nests of shaved fennel while a crumble of Ocosingo cheese from the southern state of Chiapas enlivened jewel-toned mounds of tomatillo, nopal, fava beans, black beans, peas and eggplant. All served family style and created by the local chef Elena Reygadas, who owns the restaurant Rosetta among other places in town, these dishes — as well as the individually plated sweet potato ravioli main and dessert of poached pears with tarragon and elderflowers — emphasized the profusion of fruits and vegetables used widely in Mexican cuisine.

As the plates came out, Villanti stood to make a toast with a glass of sparkling wine from the foothills of the Italian Alps. “Guillaume always compares a small business to a small glass, filling it drop by drop,” she told her guests. “Some of those drops are bigger, some are smaller, but they’re all essential.” Here’s how she turned what she’d initially conceived as a small dinner into a larger event that, nonetheless, felt special and intimate.

Focus on the Parts of Entertaining You Enjoy

Villanti prefers to invest her time, whenever possible, in the elements of her work that energize her. With Chava, that’s design, production and customer service rather than packaging and logistics; for her dinner, it was arranging a playlist. “We welcomed everyone with Gustavo Pena and Los Panchos” — respectively, an Uruguayan songwriter and the Mexican and Puerto Rican trio whose boleros traversed the Americas beginning in the 1940s — “then dined with Brian Eno and Helado Negro and finished the night with Sharon Jones, Fela Kuti and Juan Gabriel,” the designer says. To keep conversation flowing, she introduced people before dinner began and arranged the seating to encourage new relationships while ensuring that everyone was also close enough to someone more familiar.

Allow Yourself to Be Outshone

No one should feel uncomfortable at a party, neither over- nor underdressed, which is why Villanti wanted to keep her own look both elegant and slightly “undone,” she says. For the dinner, she wore the tuxedo jacket and pants from Chava’s new collection, made in collaboration with the tailor Edmundo Hernandez (based outside the city of Puebla), sizing up the pant for a looser silhouette. She had on “a beloved white T-shirt that’s been in my closet forever” beneath, left her hair down and applied very little makeup — finding common ground between people who came dressed up and those who’d opted for something more low key.

Keep Everything Relaxed

For all the grandeur of Proyecto Público Prim, which often hosts events like weddings and art fairs, it was important to Villanti that the evening remain informal, in keeping with not only her own aesthetic but also that of the city, which is known for its openness and warmth. Arrangements of eucalyptus and silver dollar wreathed in mauve clusters of amaranth were deliberately sparse — there were only three on the table — so as not to obstruct sightlines or conversation. Villanti also set out lots of handmade candles in a range of shapes and sizes to foster a sense of spontaneity and ease.

Let Your Guests Get Involved

Though Villanti isn’t a natural delegator, she found that including friends and guests in the process of organizing the dinner brought them as much joy as it brought her peace of mind. As the hour approached to open the venue, the New York-based photographer Clémence Polès put together the flower arrangements while Guevara hung mood boards for the collection (created by the Los Angeles-based creative director Johanna Langford, a regular Chava collaborator) from fishing wire.

Take Moments Alone

Hosting is demanding, not just in the planning but in the execution, requiring constant engagement. For Villanti, stepping back every so often for a few quiet minutes in a dark corner was “a great way to recharge and be more present,” she says. Standing at the periphery of her own party allowed her to watch as her guests, who came from different places and different worlds, created new bonds, expanding the community that brought them there in the first place.

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‘Museum of Failure’ featuring Colgate Lasagne and fat-free Pringles opens its doors

March 27, 2023 by www.express.co.uk Leave a Comment

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In the 1980s, Colgate Lasagne attempted to enter the lucrative frozen food market in the US (Image: The Museum of Failure )

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No-fat Pringles, Colgate Lasagne and a Hannibal Lecter-style face mask are just some of the unusual items on display at the Museum of Failure, which opened its doors this month.

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The museum in Brooklyn, New York features 150 failed products from recent history – some more bonkers than others, including the ill-fated pasta dish by the toothpaste giant.

In the 1980s, Colgate veered widely from its oral hygiene lane and attempted to branch out into the frozen food industry.

The company’s frozen beef lasagnes flopped and the ordeal seemed to have been forgotten about until Dr Samuel West decided to display it in his museum.

West said his Museum of Failure exhibition showcases the very worst failures but hopes the place and its projects will inspire people to “take meaningful risks”.

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Coke II is also showcased at the museum (Image: The Museum of Failure)

Another product exhibited in the museum is fat-free Pringles, which were pulled from the market because they caused “anal leakage” troubles.

An official website for the museum has since explained the meaning behind the exhibition, which has been featured in prominent cities around the world.

The statement reads: “Museum of Failure is a collection of failed products and services from around the world.

“The majority of all innovation projects fail and the museum showcases these failures to provide visitors a fascinating learning experience.

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“Every item provides unique insight into the risky business of innovation.

“Innovation and progress require an acceptance of failure. The museum aims to stimulate productive discussion about failure and inspire us to take meaningful risks.”

Also included in the exhibition is the infamous New Coke – an unsuccessful upgrade on the world-renowned Coca-Cola brand.

It spent just 120 weeks on the market.

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The exhibition holds failed items (Image: The Museum of Failure )

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The creator said the exhibtion shows the difficult world of innovation (Image: The Museum of Failure )

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Over 150 items are on display at the museum (Image: The Museum of Failure )

Also on display is Coke II described as a “sweeter version of the original recipe”.

It remained in the market between 1985 to 2004 and “conspiracy theories” over its introduction and cancellation are rife, the museum notes.

Beauty product – the Rejuvenique facial mask – which looks like it could be straight from a horror film, will also feature in the exhibition.

The product zaps the user’s facial muscles with electric shocks. One user said: “The mask ‘feels like a thousand ants are biting my face”.

Many other products from big names including Facebook, IBM and Bic will feature in the exhibition, held from March 17 until May 9.

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Affordable housing in CT has been a problem. This solution is being discussed.

March 27, 2023 by www.chron.com Leave a Comment

Suburban Republicans on last week continued their opposition to housing legislation, but were out-voted by majority Democrats in a key legislative committee.

The GOP members of the legislative Planning and Development Committee first rejected Gov. Ned Lamont’s proposed incentives to support affordable housing units Friday, then voted against the panel’s legislation aimed at rewarding towns and cities that support transit-oriented development. But with a 13-8 Democratic majority on the panel, the bills head next to the Senate and House of Representatives, respectively.

Opposition to the bills, during a three-hour-long meeting that ended the committee’s bill-writing for the session, was led by Sen. Ryan Fazio of Greenwich and Rep. Joe Zullo of East Haven, the top Republicans on the panel, along with Sen. Tony Hwang of Fairfield.

“We all agree that improving the stock of affordable housing in the state is an important goal,” Fazio said of Lamont’s proposal, aimed at increasing units for a state workforce where there are about 100,000 job openings. “At the same time I do have significant concerns about this proposal as well.” He said as written, the bill would be “too-onerous” on towns and create more work for over-burdened local zoning boards of appeals.

Republicans also criticized the proposed growing role of the state Municipal Redevelopment Authority (MRDA), a quasi-public agency created in 2019 with a million-dollar budget and bonding authority to support affordable housing within a half mile of downtown transit hubs.

“We want to be looking at high-opportunity areas where we can create the best housing, frankly, and make it accessible,” said Zullo, the town attorney for East Haven.

“I applaud the governor’s engagements and thoughts in regard to housing accessibility and growth in the state of Connecticut,” Hwang said. “I think both Republicans and Democrats share the governor’s prioritization in that and understand there is a critical need.” He said the redevelopment authority has had delays in getting members for its board. “It has not truly demonstrated any initiative. For us to empower this quasi-public entity with what we are proposing in this bill is possibly putting the cart before the horse.”

Hwang said another problem he has with the proposal includes requirements that could allow builders to possibly skirt local requirements. “What we will see as a common theme throughout many of these housing and zoning initiative bills, truly is the state exerting its will and saying to the local municipality leaders that ‘We know better than you, and because you have not done certain things, we’re going to do it for you,'” Hwang said.

“That to me is over-reaching and a one-size-fits-all policy that does not ever work,” Hwang continued. “In order for us to have successful, sustainable and implementable programs that’ll benefit all parties involved, it needs to be collaborative. It needs to be built on trust in which local, federal and state officials all work together.”

There are several other pieces of legislation on the issue of affordable housing that are currently pending in the legislature.

Rep. Eleni Kavros DeGraw, D-Avon, co-chairman of the committee, admitted that the bill will be subject to further revisions as the legislature heads to its midnight June 7 deadline. “I echo the sentiments that we are all happy to see the governor putting in a bill to try to move us along, to try to get us to a situation where we have more housing, more affordable housing,” she said. “It’s more than critical to our work force. It’s critical to everyone. I hope we’re thinking about everyone, because that’s what we need to be doing.”

“This was not a balanced scale,” Rep. Tom Delnicki, R-South Windsor, said the proposal would bypass local officials. “It was a function of putting a thumb on a scale and actually taking away municipal rights. I see a concept of a stick with no carrot.”

Later in the meeting, before Democrats approved their transit-oriented development bill, which would set up a state Office of Responsible Growth to assist communities, Kavros DeGraw said that housing availability and affordability become measures of public health in the cases of older housing complexes “whether it’s affordable or not.” She recalled similar arguments in 2021, when arguments flared in the General Assembly over race and local control .

“I don’t see this issue as an issue that needs to be divisive,” Kavros DeGraw said. “My hope is that as we acknowledge the work that many towns have done toward this issue, we are also trying to set the towns up who maybe have not been able to for many of the reasons that have been elucidated today, including small staffs. That Office of Responsible Growth could be that assist, frankly. We are closer than we think in many ways.We know we need affordable housing for literally everyone. We cannot do nothing.”

State Rep. Tami Zawistowski, R-East Granby, was critical of the proposed expanded role of the redevelopment authority. “The way it was written originally is that it was voluntary and it would cover towns of 70,000 persons or more or two or more municipalities of 70,000 or more as a group,” she said, suggesting that the pandemic hindered the start-up of the redevelopment authority. The governor’s proposal would open up membership in the authority to any town or city, regardless of size.

“Expanding the authority of MRDA, I think at this point without a track record is somewhat reckless,” said Zawistowski, who is in her fifth term. “Not every town is suited to the type of development that is suggested in here. For example, some of these adjacent towns may be on well and septic, can’t make the density requirements.”

Last month, Lamont proposed a two-year $50.5 billion budget including including $200 million in incentives for developers to construct housing for the new workers needed to fill jobs.

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Foster bails out of inner city Sonning car park apartment project in Hamilton

March 20, 2023 by www.stuff.co.nz Leave a Comment

Foster Construction has pulled the pin on involvement in the controversial redevelopment of Hamilton CBD’s Sonning carpark into a high-rise apartment complex.

The move by Fosters was confirmed by Hamilton City Council on Monday, confirming information relayed by a range of other sources.

”Yes, we understand [Foster’s chief executive]Leonard Gardner, who was advocating for an affordable housing development on Sonning, is now focusing his efforts elsewhere,” a council statement said.

”Council is open to working with other parties on potential development options for the site” in Claudelands. But a spokesperson said no other specific proposals were on the table.

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Asked whether Fosters bailing out was correct and, if so, why, Gardner only said in a text: “HCC is the land owner and taking a lead on the process … Fosters supports future development in the Hamilton CBD.”

The development had been in conflicts with Hamilton hapū Ngāti Wairere’s wishes for the site.

Former deputy mayor Gordon Chesterman, chairperson of Guardians of Claudelands which has campaigned against a Sonning development, said he had heard from two “excellent” sources that Fosters would no longer be involved.

His guess was the project had “all become too hard with the Ngāti Wairere treaty claim” over Sonning, the site of the former Opoia Pā.

Gardner said in November last year his company hoped to have a development concept ready by February but said last month that “nothing has progressed due to treaty claim status on site”. He didn’t wish to elaborate at that stage.

Chesterman said the fact that a treaty claim could take several years to resolve was likely to have been a big factor in Fosters pulling out.

“I think it’s probably 80% of the reason.”

Another factor could have been the steepness and amount of fill at the site, Chesterman said.

The Guardians – which is against a high-rise project given the character of Claudelands – would continue to support Ngāti Wairere’s treaty claim and its wish for the name of the car park to be formally changed to Opoia Pā, as well as moves to turn the site into a park.

“If they want a park … then we would support that”, with possibly a related car park, said Chesterman.

Ngāti Wairere Claims Trust negotiator Haydn​ Solomon suspected the “politically charged” nature of the Sonning proposal including “the treaty claim, and the cultural and archaeological aspects of the site” may have put Fosters off.

If so, that was “prudent on their part”.

Given the amount of investment needed to develop the project Fosters would have wanted certainty that the council had done enough to facilitate development.

“If that’s in question that’s not good business.”

On whether opposing development could mean people, including Māori, missed out on quality housing, Solomon said treaty settlements didn’t stop the Crown being responsible for the issues Māori and others face in the modern world.

“Māori are taxpayers as well.” The Crown had a responsibility “to Māori and all New Zealanders”, Solomon said.

Last month, the council confirmed that as owner of the car park it had signed a housing outcomes agreement over it with the Government “as it supports our vision for the site and will help achieve our housing aspirations”.

But it denied a development at Sonning was a condition of the council getting all or any of a $150 million grant from the Government for critical infrastructure to enable development of about 4000 homes across the city.

It also said the carpark – which the council could sell as part of any redevelopment – is defined as private land and the Treaty of Waitangi Act 1975 prevents the tribunal from recommending the return of any such land to Māori ownership.

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